Many
organisations these days have mercenaries. Their employees are there
just because they want to be paid at the end of the month. Performance
in this case is driven by the fact that the employee wants to make “ends
meet.” When you ask these employees how work is like, there are really
upfront and tell you, “I hate my job!” Whilst there may be many other
reasons why employees grow to hate their job yet still do it, a primary
reason is a poor subordinate – boss relationship. Very few managers have
the requisite people skills needed to effectively manage their
subordinates for performance. This only makes sense because very few
managers have been trained to do so. Many managers have been taught
to manage by objectives and metrics to monitor performance, and they
have this misconception that bonding with your team members will be seen
as a distraction at best or weakness at worst.
Leaders
should develop personal relationships with their subordinates. The
productive manager is less like a football coach with a whistle around
his neck and more like a belayer helping climbers reach the next goal.
While it is true that companies with abundant resources can afford to
use fear as a motivator and absorb the cost of more frequent hirings and
firings, this approach frequently ends up with a demoralised workforce,
high staff turnover and poor service delivery.
Many
employees are emotional hostages to their work places. They are
hostages to emotions such as anxiety, fear and ambition. This negatively
impacts on performance. George Kohlrieser (George Kohlrieser, 2001),
argues that to escape from these emotional hostage situations, each
employee needs a secure base — a person, place, goal or object that
provides a place of protection, gives a sense of comfort, and a source
of energy. This is where managers are most important.
As
a manager, you are there to motivate people to respond to the changing
goals and circumstances. You define and direct what needs to be done and
you inspire employees to accomplish that. Too often, your subordinates
do not give you the results you want because there is no relationship
between you, the manager, and the employee. An example would be
employees’ response to change. Employees do not resist change itself,
rather the pain of change and the fear of the unknown that comes with
it. As a result, employees think more defensively, they hold back and
resist pursuing success and playing to win. In the workplace, leaders
who show concern and interest in their employees' lives and have a
predictable set of rules, create a healthy attachment that empowers
others to embrace the risk of pursuing success.
Employees
want to be cared for. They want to feel that their manager genuinely
has their interests at heart. Effectively managing for performance will
require that managers move beyond simply giving instructions and
demanding results. I am not suggesting that managers should act as
“caregivers” or “parents”; rather that these insights help managers work
with people's strengths and tendencies, rather than against them.
Isolating an employee with authoritative demands and intimidation
triggers a sense of isolation, threat, and fear. Then the brain slams
the brakes on the ability to take initiative and makes it harder for
people to think productively.
Behavioural
psychology teaches us that humans will behave more favourable to crisis
situations if they feel they have support. Strongly subordinate
superior bonds can help teams survive and thrive in crisis situations.
In the same light, a thing that managers often miss is that employees
will respond more favourably to a rebuke, for example, where they feel
that there is a positive relationship between you and them. When you
look at it, developing relationships is also psychologically rewarding
to those who give it, generating a sense of reward and connection.
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